It's Christmas season once again and after a number of years of being the Christmas grinch I have finally figured out why about two weeks or more before Christmas I had a very bad attitude to the point of ridiculousness. It is quite simple I was always expecting things to be better at this time of year, and because I thought that the world was going to be a better place I was disappointed. So with out realizing over a period of time I developed this attitude at a very young age and tucked it away for this time of year, and yes there are all the old arguments, however there are somethings people like me have to sort out for themselves.The point of this hole thing is we should have a look at what we are teaching our kids in what Christmas is. What ever it is to you as an individual you must decide which way to or not to spend your time at Christmas and what your  actions are saying to others around you.If you are a parent then you know what joy a new born in the family should bring, it's generally a time of rejoicing. We should get that same feeling toward Christmas, even if we celebrate it as a Christian or as a traditional Christmas. then again if it is just party time then why bother you can do that anytime anywhere, and if you don't believe in Christmas it really doesn't matter to you at all.